harv Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Ok guys and girls. What's going on. As a few of you know, Bev and I are separated. Please no tears. It was a mutual agreement. No hard feelings. So, I bought my own house ! Good thing, I'll have my own man cave ! The problem with moving is my wife's house is in the middle of a big remodel,so trying to get to my stuff and boxing it is a big hassle. I'm not going away, I need all of you to help me keep my sanity??? So, just to let you all know....harv 8 7
Jeff Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Oh geez... life sure has a way, eh, Harv? I will do my best to keep you out of jail.. .... and buying more kits, many more .... I hate the moving thing, and packing is even worse.... on that score I feel your pain.... and then there is the adventure of opening said packed boxes and seeing how much stuff got broken.... yuck.... best of luck with the packing and boxing of 'stuff'..... I'm with ya buddy 6 1
harv Posted February 23, 2023 Author Posted February 23, 2023 I hate moving to. Didn't think I would ever move again! What an adventure, lol. And thanks Jeff !....harv 😊 8
KevinM Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Hate to hear that Harv how long married?I think that having a man cave out back has helped for ours.I think our last trip to FL and seeing some family always helps just spending small amounts of time just talking she likes that.Well the big word is separated... but you have a house.....Get moved and stay optimistic. 9
harv Posted February 23, 2023 Author Posted February 23, 2023 Thanks Kevin. Married 44 years, go figure....harv 5 1
KevinM Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 1 minute ago, harv said: Thanks Kevin. Married 44 years, go figure....harv Wow!! I have heard this happening more and more we are 35 but been together 40 (1983).My friend we had to bury last week they had 68yrs and wife's Mom/Dad had 55+ before he passed. 4 3
Landlubber Mike Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Hang in there Harv! Go play golf, join a gym, find a club or other similar activity. You can always go for retail therapy and buy lots of kits - or live vicariously through the others of us on here that do so 3 5
GusMac Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Sorry to hear that harv, at least it sounds to be fairly amicable. Hope you get moved as soon as possible. 6
harv Posted February 23, 2023 Author Posted February 23, 2023 Thanks buddy. Yes we are both cool about it. Moving is a pita !!...harv 8
belugawhaleman Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Sorry to hear of this Harv...Myself, I hate moving too. Wish you luck. 6 1
Barry Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Thinking good thoughts for you my U-Tapao Brother! Barry 5 1
Peterpools Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 Harv Sorry to hear you and Bev have separated and have decided to go your own ways. 44 years is a long time to share each other's life but if it what makes you both happy, then it might be for the best. Wishing you both happiness. Yes moving is a long drawn out adventure but better days to come. 8 1
harv Posted February 23, 2023 Author Posted February 23, 2023 Since we retired to Missouri, we have both grown in opposite direction. Not bad or good, just life. It's all good. Thanks John. With everyone's help here, it will be good. After getting moved and set up, I want to get back to the bench. Been too long...harv 8
Vandy1 VX-4 Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 I was hoping it was getting better!!!! But I guess it just didn’t work out!! I’m so sorry to hear this buddy. 6
harv Posted February 23, 2023 Author Posted February 23, 2023 Thanks Danny. It's all good. Still best of friends....harv 4 1
Martinnfb Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 To my understanding, the choice was mutual and relatively painless. That talks about the qualities of both of you. I wish you both all the best , especially to stay connected in supportive and positive way. So, now you have no excuses but to finish all your unfinished projects. Or, to get out to meet some really hot chicks, then get a dog or two , few rifles, fishing rods you always wanted, etc. 3 7
Jeff Posted February 23, 2023 Posted February 23, 2023 AND, a HOT Sports Car !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like an old guy at work used to say, You could look like a Chicago pimp at a Hollywood Convention ! 1 6
Martinnfb Posted February 24, 2023 Posted February 24, 2023 ... to be suggestive... second gen. Corvette would fill the bill :)... not sure about the scale though 1 6
Jeff Posted February 24, 2023 Posted February 24, 2023 1 minute ago, Martinnfb said: ... to be suggestive... second gen. Corvette would fill the bill :)... not sure about the scale though 6 2
Sparse Grey Hackles Posted February 24, 2023 Posted February 24, 2023 5 hours ago, harv said: Ok guys and girls. What's going on. As a few of you know, Bev and I are separated. Please no tears. It was a mutual agreement. No hard feelings. So, I bought my own house ! Good thing, I'll have my own man cave ! The problem with moving is my wife's house is in the middle of a big remodel,so trying to get to my stuff and boxing it is a big hassle. I'm not going away, I need all of you to help me keep my sanity??? So, just to let you all know....harv Sorry to hear. Tough stuff no matter how friendly 6 2
Martinnfb Posted February 24, 2023 Posted February 24, 2023 5 minutes ago, Jeff said: Too much chrome, time to modify thing or two 😛 7 1
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